I know, I know - you’ve heard the cliché: “We don’t chase, we attract.” Cute on a coffee mug, sure. But most of us are still sprinting in emotional stilettos; the kind that make our ass look great, and somehow, we still kill it. Once upon a time, I chased coffee. Now I chase matcha. Different stimulant, same delusion. (But that’s a problem for another day.) The High Priestess  would simply sip hers in silence and wait for the universe to blink first. Because she knows what mo