The Quiet Storm: Finding Gratitude When the Sky Won’t Clear

There are days when gratitude doesn’t come easy.

When the world feels heavier than your morning coffee and the idea of “staying positive” feels like a group project you never signed up for.

That’s okay.

You don’t have to be the sunbeam right now.

Sometimes the storm needs to speak.

I’m not going to tell you to reframe your mindset or slap a shiny affirmation over your existential dread. I’m not here to hand you a gratitude list and whisper “just focus on the good.” No thanks. I live here too - in the weird in-between where everything feels both too much and not enough.

And let’s be honest, some days it feels like we’re living in the Twilight Zone or trapped in one of those TV shows we all swore couldn’t possibly get worse. (Where’s Doctor Who when you need her? And yes, she’s one of my favorites so far.)

What I will say is this: I see you. I hear you. And it’s okay that you’re tired of pretending the sky is always blue.

The thing about storms is that they don’t ask permission to clear the air.

They just do.

They shake the branches, rinse the mess, and force us to pause. And when they pass, we start to notice the small glimmers again - the real ones.

A laugh that breaks through the noise.

A meme that hits way too close to home.

A stranger who holds the door open when you’re clearly one bad email away from unraveling.

That’s gratitude too - not the forced kind, the found kind. The weathered kind that doesn’t sugarcoat reality but still believes in light somewhere behind the clouds.

And if you don’t feel it right now? Don’t force it. Just look for the glimmers.

One small thing a day that reminds you you’re still here - which, frankly, is an achievement worth celebrating.

An ocean caught between storm and sunrise - dark clouds dissolving, light gathering strength. A rose petal and a compass reflection rest together on calm water, as if the storm left behind its own soft lesson in direction and grace.

A quiet thanks to my therapist for reminding me to look for glimmers - those tiny, defiant sparks that sneak in when everything else feels dim. I rolled my eyes at first, obviously. Then I caught one. (Don’t tell her she was right.)

You don’t have to change the whole world.

…Unless you want to - in that case, I’ll be over here cheering you on, throwing glitter and muttering something darkly inspirational about chaos being a creative force.

But you can be a change - in your own, beautifully imperfect way.

Maybe that’s a random act of kindness (ROAK).

Maybe it’s donating, or calling someone who needs to hear your voice.

Maybe it’s participating in something bigger, like the Big Beautiful Boycott (BBB).

Maybe it’s simply drinking your water and refusing to doomscrolling past midnight.

Whatever it is, let it be real and let it be yours.

And when in doubt, look for the helpers. (Yes, I’m a Mr. Rogers fan. Don’t roll your eyes - some of us were raised on gentle rebellion and cardigan wisdom.)

You, my fellow wanderer, are the quiet storm.

Not the kind that destroys - the kind that redefines the landscape. The kind that clears space for something new to grow.

We, your compass collective, are out here with you paddling through the same unpredictable weather.

Some days, we’re lighthouses. Other days, we’re just soggy sailors with good intentions and bad snacks.

Both are sacred. Both are human.

So if all you can do today is breathe, that’s enough.

If all you can offer is noticing - that counts.

And if your gratitude looks like gallows humor and a muttered “well, at least it’s not raining frogs…” - thats valid, too.

And when the next glimmer catches your eye, even faintly, let it. It’s proof that your storm still has lightning left in it. ⚡️

⊹ Always,

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